tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15776491.post115448628699845435..comments2023-10-09T19:29:35.240+08:00Comments on The Vadai Has Landed: The Single Child - All for onedarthvadaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00199188492752007701noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15776491.post-1154720745321782492006-08-05T03:45:00.000+08:002006-08-05T03:45:00.000+08:00Jnr is in the right age to discovered ponder and a...Jnr is in the right age to discovered ponder and ask that question - thats natural development for him. Jnr or any single child at his age now would want to have a little baby in the house. When he is around 7+ & has friends to play football with he'll be busy meeting his buddies to play ball not a baby.<BR/><BR/>in my humble opinion to bring a new child into the world knowing the problems that exist such as financial constrains and more is 'being selfish' without thinking the new child's future welfare. The decision made today effects the child's life tomorrow- medical care? good education?...its the quality of life given.<BR/><BR/>its not about how many kids a family should have - its about how many they can afford to have and bring up to the best.to compromise the future of a unborn child without examining the current scenario is ...(im lost for words)<BR/><BR/>Let me share this with all readers :<BR/>I know a child - the single mother have taken a different approach -she let him to spend time at an orphanage and make friends and play around - he bonded with another child who comes over to the house spends time with him - like brothers. Both knows they have to say goodbye when time for either to go back to separate homes. That bond will build character and bring a higher teaching to their soul.<BR/>Must sibling be one of same blood and share roof or one who grows up with us and shares our life journey? <BR/>what is the message we want to teach our child today?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15776491.post-1154661175191496872006-08-04T11:12:00.000+08:002006-08-04T11:12:00.000+08:00why u answer urself la vadai? hahaha... well to me...why u answer urself la vadai? hahaha... well to me 2 kids are enuff... not more than that.. one kid is too little but that depends... nowadays ppl wan quality rather than quantityAngie Siewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04114679808258836887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15776491.post-1154568328915924822006-08-03T09:25:00.000+08:002006-08-03T09:25:00.000+08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.darthvadaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00199188492752007701noreply@blogger.com