Monday, August 21, 2006

SMS Lingo

[A]
AFAIKAs Far As I Know
AFKAway From Keyboard
ASAPAs Soon As Possible
ASLAge, Sex, Location
ATKAt The Keyboard
A3Anytime, Anywhere, Anyplace


[B]
BAKBack At Keyboard
BBLBe Back Later
BBSBe Back Soon
BF or B/FBoyfriend
BRBBe Right Back
BTWBy The Way


[C]
CUSee You
CUL8RSee You Later
CYASee You


[F]
FOCFree Of Charge
FYIFor Your Information


[G]
GR8Great!


[I]
ICI See
IMHOIn My Honest/Humble Opinion
IMOIn My Opinion
IOWIn Other Words


[J]
JKJust Kidding


[L]
LMAOLaugh My Ass Off
LOLLaughing Out Loud
L8RLater


[M]
M8Mate


[O]
OICOh I See
OMGOh My God


[R]
ROFLRolling On The Floor Laughing
ROFLOLRolling On The Floor Laughing Out Loud
ROTFLMAORolling On The Floor Laughing My A** Off


[S]
SK8Skate


[T]
THXThank You


[U]
UYou
U2You Too


[W]
WRUWhere Are You
WTFWhat The F***
WTGWay To Go!


http://www.smsglossary.com/definitions.html

Sunday, August 20, 2006

Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna - Never Say Goodbye

We meet acquaintances in funny ways and these past few months I have kind of opened myself to a different environment. I been watching more tamil movies in theaters. I love tamil and hindi movies but not the kind to sit thru 3 hours of a movie with 6 songs sequences and more dress changes, still one kenot resist a good movie. A suggest we go to this movie, was supposed to be Friday but since Marie scheduled in Beach, I asked A to schedule if for Sat. She agreed, initially was just me her and kalai, but they block book 6 tickets, so I sent a few sms to see who was interested in watching, the usualy suspects declines, L declined also (but I was fuddled by a barrages of exchanges b4 getting the msg across sigh), anyway push came to shove, A, me, Kalai, scud, P and a new acquaintance S drop by, we lepak at Coffeebean and its was a ncie chemistry of mixing around. S warmed to all of us and fit right in.

I had read the synopsis for this movie, which did not give it a good review. Its a movie about extra-marital affairs a subject I am quite experienced on and it hit me like a rock. Lots of events portrayed in this movie I can relate to and tears flowed freely.

Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna - Never Say Goodbye

Synopsis
Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna (KANK) is the story of Dev and Maya, both married to different people and completely convinced that they are happy, until they meet each other. Dev (Shah Rukh Khan) is a professional football player whose promising career is nipped in the bud after an accident. He is married to Rhea (Preity Zinta) whose career is on an upswing. They have a son, Arjun, and Dev’s mother, Kamaljit (Kirron Kher) lives with them. Maya (Rani Mukherji) teaches at a nursery and has married her closest friend Rishi (Abhishek Bachchan), a PR consultant. Rishi’s father, Samarjit Singh aka Sam (Amitabh Bachchan) is a flamboyant, fun-loving man whose life revolves around the happiness of his son and daughter-in-law.

The two couples seem content despite the dissatisfaction below the surface but things start to change when a chance encounter between Dev and Maya brings them closer. There is a strange connection between them which blossoms into friendship.

Their time together soon causes complications. This new-found friendship between Dev and Maya causes them to look into their marriages with a new perspective and face up to issues that they hadn’t before. How all the different characters deal with this new development in their lives forms the crux of Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna.

Director
Karan Johar

Star Cast
Amitabh Bachchan...... Samarjit Singh Talwar aka Sam, Shahrukh Khan...... Dev Saran, Rani Mukherjee...... Maya Talwar, Preity Zinta...... Rhea Saran, Abhishek Bachchan...... Rishi Talwar, Kirron Kher...... Kamaljeet Saran,

Rani M was awesome a face you could just look again and again, amongst my top list with Aish and Kajol who did make a cameo appearance.

The screenplay balances the two extremes -- light moments and dollops of emotions -- with amazing ease. The relationship between the couples or even those between the parent and child is delicately handled. If there are moments that move you to tears, there are ample moments that bring a smile to your face as well. Another noteworthy aspect is its forthright dialogues. The lines sound straight of life and there also exist a host of interesting observations. Yes, the film is talky, but in a smart way. You never feel that the characters are talking to hear their own words or to fill up screen time. It moved me coz I have seen it happen in my life



Abhishek is brilliant, especially when he gets serious towards the end. His penultimate sequence, when he gives a golden advice to Rani, is outstanding. Preity not only looks gorgeous, but the dedication to her role shows at vital points. Her penultimate scene with Rani, when she confronts her at the marriage reception, is fabulous.

Amitabh Bachchan is in superb form. The naughty streak that he displays soon disappears in the second half, when he realizes that something is amiss. In fact, his expressions at the dinner first and also in the hospital only reiterates the fact that he's an icon.

Worth watching.

Beach Club Review

Beach club with XXXie was, was nto bother who else showed up or did nto show up about coming, miss that girl. The USS Enterprise, was in town so the place was loaded with sailors both sexes.. weeeeeeeee. Devil was there in her own world, we just let her be. I enjoyed my self and did not regret going except the fact it burned a hole in my pocket. The caga came in and the sailor girls climbed on it and being a gentleman lol they sought my assistance to climb up.

What was I supposed to go, I gave an helping hand, so here I was dancing down, Sam showed up then Pik (abang) was rocking the house so it was me, xiie and Pik really nice really good. A guy bought me 2 beers ( go figure) the girls gave me a big peck on the cheek for keeping away the maruding middle east men. All in a day's work.

I was happy to spend time wiht Xxiee, we cant relive the past but we sure can build better futures...

Rock on..

XXXie vadai sounded burnt ok. but still sexy old man lol


Friday, August 18, 2006

One of those days

Sean: Do you have a soul mate? Will: Define that. Sean: Someone you can relate to, someone who opens things up for you. Will: Sure, I got plenty. Sean: Well, name them. Will: Shakespeare, Nietzsche, Frost, O'Conner... Sean: Well that's great. They're all dead. Will: Not to me, they're not. Sean: You can't have a lot of dialogue with them. Will: Not without a heater and some serious smelling salts.


You ever have one of those days where you’re working constantly but your list never seems to get any shorter? You know one of those days that just seemed to drag on and on and by the end of the day you’re so shot mentally that the first person that comes along an even just looks at you funny you bite their head off and end up walking away even grumpier? Yeah, it’s been one of those days.

Xxxie been sounding me to come out to beach, m not feeling to well but she is dear to me, dun think I wanna pass up.... I often told xxiee its been a long time since she been herself in Beach ... so much water under the bridge. The way Alacy eyes would open wide in beach club or the way Kalai would 'main mata', Subbie shivering from the aircond blast....those were the days.

Good one from Lacy


Today Friday woh ok ok 5% lol

Now I know how to give 100% a week

What a stupid headline in the NST today

Shocking!
High degree of sexual promiscuity and ignorance on campus

18 Aug 2006 Shamini Darshni


KUALA LUMPUR: They either have no fear or are ignorant. Either way, MalaysiaÂ’s best and brightest are flirting with AIDS and death every day, suggests a survey of private colleges and public universities.

One in two young adults are having sex. Unnerving? Try this. Eighty per cent of them do not use contraceptives.

Latest figures show that sexually-active university and college students, between the ages of 18 and 25, do not even think about condoms when they hop into the sack.
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What bloody century are the dumb researches living in?? Hellloooo? You don't need a researcher to tell you this. Its so evident, not to label all students as sluts but from back then its evident?

Sheesh what a waste of time. Wei its so bad it seven happening in schools and teenagers, but I guess that will only beresearchedd and made a headline in year 2010.


A turn for the worse

Came back from work today and crashed into bed, getting worse...popped some pills and woke up close to 10....cought a little TV made some soup and did some blogging.

Its past midnight and Friday and my head is numb...went online but no familiar faces... gonna take lots of fluid and survive the weekend... Hope to bump into xxx tomorrow....mamak sounds nice right now with soup kambing... mmmmmmm subbie got a cousin birthday..... I need a massage hehehe tempted by Jen's offer hope I strike it rich this week,

Time to sign off. Friday Gambateh!!!!

Reading Tom Clancy till I can sleep

ramblings

I have to remind myself that some birds aren't meant to be caged. Their feathers are just too bright. And when they fly away, the part of you that knows it was a sin to lock them up DOES rejoice. Still, the place you live in is that much more drab and empty that they're gone. I guess I just miss my friend.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Comdom Testing - Your the tester lol

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weeeeeee not all I need is to look for a fellow tester aka test subject

Singapore style : women definations

WOMAN DEFINATIONS

Logic: This is her perception of the situation done to her best liking.

Solution: Ways to solve problems that suits her taste.

Democratic: It is either her way or her way.

Freedom of Choices: We have two choices and they are “YES” or “OK”.

Freedom of Speech: Words spoken is what she wants to hear.

Equality: Man and woman have equal rights but woman retains the benefits of the weaker sex.

Beauty & Spa: Her glamour is your honor, so you must chip in a part.

Electronic Gadgets: To her is a waste of time and money but demand surround sound and plasma when watching her “Huan Zhu Ge Ge. (还珠格格)”

Soccer: 22 idiots chasing for one ball.

Golf: Pay money, sweat under the hot sun, whack the damn ball and then start searching for it.

Great Sale: Buy first, then think of the use later.

MANGO Sale: Buy first even if it doesn’t fit her because she has plans (started planning 3 years ago) to loose weight.

Save Cost: Drive from Jurong to Carrefour because the Milo there is 10cents cheaper than NTUC.

How to find quality in your next car

Yahoo


The best way is to see for yourself. Here are 10 of the key things to look for at the dealership:
10 keys to look for

  1. Look at the seams.
  2. Match colors.
  3. What lies beneath?
  4. Under the hood.
  5. Eye the glass.
  6. Door "thunk".
  7. Interior design.
  8. Exposed wiring.
  9. Little things mean a lot.
  10. Serious test drive.

First, check out the body of the car, looking beyond the styling and paying attention to the details.

1. Look at the seams. Check the gaps between body panels. Are the gaps uniform throughout? A well-engineered and constructed car will show the same body gaps around the doors, the trunk and the hood. Pay particular attention to this on vehicles that have been significantly redesigned or are all new to the market. Although the old adage about not buying a redesigned model in the first year generally no longer applies, varying body gaps may indicate the assembly process needs some adjusting.

2. Match colors. Pay attention to the places on the body where different materials are used, such as where a nose made of a composite plastic material meets the steel of the rest of the body. The paint should not noticeably change hue from one surface to another.

3. What lies beneath? Look under the car to see what protrusions, particularly at the front, could get hung up on parking berms and rip free. Most cars have some sort of air dam underneath the vehicle at the front to aid in cutting aerodynamic drag. But such air dams should be mounted far enough back so parking berms won't rip them off or should be mounted in such a way as to bend rather than break when encountering an object.

4. Under the hood. Even if you're no mechanic, closely inspect the engine bay. Most cars have a cover that surrounds most of the top of the engine. Make sure it's mounted securely -- you shouldn't be able to shake it. The same test should apply to any battery covering. Look at the wiring. It should be either covered or tightly bound together to prevent anything from coming loose.

5. Eye the glass. Look at the window glass and see how the side windows fit against the rubber gaskets when closed. Anything less than a perfect fit will result in wind noise that will only get worse as the car ages.

6. Door "thunk". Open and close the doors, looking for how many so-called "stops" are built into the hinges. A vehicle's door should have two settings so that it will stay open in a half-way position and fully opened. Shut the door and listen for any sort of hollow boom, which could indicate there's less sound-deadening material in the door, which will mean greater road noise.

7. Interior design. Check out the finish on the interior panels. While plastic is the industry norm when it comes to door panels and dashboards, there's a wide variety of grains and finishes applied to the plastic. The dash and panels should have a rich-looking color and have a textured feel to the casual touch. As with the body, the gaps between interior panels should be close and uniform. Look especially where the air bags are hidden.

8. Exposed wiring. If the car you're interested in has power-adjustable front seats, feel under them to see how the wiring and motor coverings are secured. Loose wires or coverings could lead to problems in the future.

9. Little things mean a lot. Pay attention to things like seat latches. They should work with minimal effort and all handles should feel secure, not prone to bending or twisting. Check the stitching and seams of the seats for any loose threads or less-than-straight sewing. Open the trunk and see how the floor covering is secured and whether it's made of a material that will stand up to carrying heavy or dirty cargo.

10. Serious test drive. Lastly, when you've all but settled on the vehicle you want, take an extended test drive, not just a spin around the block. Drive at freeway speeds and pay attention to wind and road noise. Pay attention to how the automatic transmission shifts. It should change gears smoothly and quickly. On a manual transmission, feel where the clutch starts to engage and how long or short the pedal travel is. It should engage gradually and not have any abrupt lurches. Find a safe area to test the brakes. You're not so much looking for what the car will do in a panic stop, but rather how the brakes feel when you apply the pedal. Depending on how far the pedal travels, the feel of the brakes should inspire confidence that the vehicle will stop in a relatively short distance.

All of this may sound like a no-brainer step to buying a car, but according to a recent study, more than 40 percent of new car buyers closed the deal without even taking a short test drive.

Smart buyers will pay attention to every aspect of a car in order to get a vehicle that will deliver value.

my oh my oh my

my oh my oh my

one of those day what you wake up in the morning and feel your age. Double Sigh.

It was not a good game for me in badminton coz I was not feeling it. You know when your in the zone or close to it and you give it your all. You also know when you are not in the zone.

Ricky had asked Jen to partner me, and later on I asked why many were keen I that combination, point blank, in short, pair the strongest with the weakest in hte group on the court. No prizes for guessing who the weakest and the strongest. My curt reply to Jen was Not for long. I was serious in that.

Jen and I paired off for the 1st game against Uncle's Son and Tar boy and got hammered over in 4 minutes 15-0, I was like WTF 13-0 on the 1st serve. Decided to play another game 15-2 this time, we had our noses rubbed in.

Played a RM1 game wiht Peter (asshole) but because he is elderly we give him respect as Jen label him "The Little Runt" Lost the RM 1 game but later on in the night we came back to beat the Runt out of the court. He left after that.

I guess I better label myself a diesel engine as the 2nd half was a tremendous performance. 4 energy sapping doubles matches. It was great to beat Loh & Partick (The Great Wall of Malaysia). Jen and I took unbelievable, un-saveable (if there is such a word) out of sheer determination and at time cow luck.

Thoress showed up on the 2nd half and played with determination and a corn up her ass. Orthodox as her playing style might me she gave it to the guy and then again, of course I got to share her ‘milk’ lol. Having Thoress around is like fooling around with a buddy. She is nice down to earth and you can have fun jibbing her.

We played a couple more sets then went the distance. Every paring want to kick our ass and against Patrick and Loh, Adel and Tar Boy. We were at a stage, mind and body nothing left to offer except just returing shots.

Final set… Boooya a pair of 20 year olds (TAR boy and adel versus the 30’s Jen n me) damm we were on the ropes but we won and feel fucking great. Booya!! There was nothing left to give and I was on my knees after the game as my legs gave way. Every exchange won we like gulping air to recover...I got to focus more on my body and health these days, woke up today with phlegm in my chest and as I cought it out it was greenish… popped a few pills from the house pharmacy and back to work.

The weekend going to be a hard one.

I miss subbie, xxxieee

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

The Cranberries, - Linger

If you, if you could return
Don't let it burn,don't let it fade
I'm sure I'm not being rude
But it's just your attitude
It's tearing me apart
It's ruining everything
I swore, I swore I would be true
And honey so did you
So why were you holding her hand
Is that the way we stand
Were you lying all the time
Was it just a game to you

(chorus)
But I'm in so deep
You know I'm such a fool for you
You got me wrapped around your finger
Do you have to let it linger
Do you have to, do you have to let it linger
Oh, I thought the world of you
I thought nothing could go wrong
But I was wrong, but I was wrong

If you, if you could get by
Trying not to lie
Things wouldn't be so confused
And I wouldn't feel so used
But you always really knew
I just wanna be with you




This is such a beautiful song. It's about how her guy let her down but she still loves him and she knows it's stupid to keep loving him but she has to go w/ her her heart. I personally can't relate but it's still a really good love song.

Click



VCD copy or not, TGV or GSC not..... I parked my ass for this movie expecting to see Adam Sandler make a complete buffoon of himself. However, when I came out I was impressed. There was a depth to this movie I did not see coming, and it took me completely off guard. "Click" proved to be a powerful, emotional, and humorous piece of work. There was a certain philosophical message in this movie, in which I think, we all take for granted. Adam Sandler did a great job in playing a work-aholic. Kate Beckinsale (delicious lol) is very lovable as the wife and mother of his children and Hasslehoff couldn't have been more perfectly cast as the cluelessly self-absorbed exec/ boss. It is always great to see Christopher Walkin in any movie, and in "Click" he played the eccentric scientist who provides Adam Sandler with his life controlling remote.I Recommend this to anyone looking for a quality film with a good laugh.

I liked it a lot and I'm not normally one to feel either way about these type of movies. I'd go see it next time with family and friends that I really should spend more time with anyway!

Morty: He's always chasing the pot of gold, but when he gets there, at the end of the day, it's just corn flakes.

At then end of the movie I couldn't help reflect upon the need to really appreciate life's little moments and close friends and family more.

Michael Newman: By the way, my shmekel got bigger.
Trudy: Well it couldn't have gotten any smaller!
Ted: [Laughing] It was like a little tic-tac.
Michael Newman: Yeah! Well come over here, I'll freshen your breath!

to keep from getting brunt

Trust is a fragile thing..... Once earned, it affords us tremendous freedom. But once trust is lost, it can be impossible to recover.

Of course the truth is, we never know who we can trust. Those we're closest to can betray us, and total strangers can come to our rescue.

In the end, most people decide to trust only themselves. It really is the simplest way to keep from getting burned.

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

obtuse

obtuse

1. Lacking quickness of perception or intellect.
2. Characterized by a lack of intelligence or sensitivity: an obtuse remark.
3. Not distinctly felt: an obtuse pain.


I've only been reminded in the last few days constantly that I've let five years pass. I'm not being deliberately obtuse about it, but I wasn't aware of that time passing. I was quite happily engaged in other things. I set out to indulge my curiosity in other things, not just to get away from this work.
Daniel Day-Lewis

Hypotectical - Let us pretend

Hypotectical - Let us pretend for a moment. You and i r going out. We may not know each other, and maybe to a certain extent will never be attracted to one another, but let’s just say lah Hypotecitally...that is what is happening to us right now. I like you, and you like me. But other than that, nothing’s really happened yet.

We both spend some portion of our waking hours dizzily daydreaming about the possible outcomes of our so called love affair, and overall, life is a little bit more sweeter. Everything is candy coatedand because love, or even the idea that love might happen soon, is often enough to keep us going yet another day. Maybe I think of you more than you think of me, but that's unlikely, because I like you because you like me, and anyway, it doesn't matter much.

Does it??


William Parrish: Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived.


My Buddy--- read this well its meant for you

Losing a Confidant

"Friendships may not last. Friendships can lose importance and die gradually. Some friendships end abruptly with unresolved conflict. The worst enemy of friendships is change by one or both friends. There is usually pain with the loss of friendship fact, friendships end with pain and change"

I am losing one of my friends not by choice but by climate...it has not been conducive to progress forward with so much luggage around. At time I felt I have been more of a burden then a shoulder. Despite it being long distant, it was often nice to hear a voice once a while and meet up once a while and sms a lot. How ironic to think of the situation we are in now.... and how opposite things were not to long ago.

Guess sometimes life is ironic. I losing a friend today, and IÂ’m depressed. Its natural... Making and losing friends is all part of the process of growing up. We have all had experiences with our friends. We all take the experience of losing a friend and take that knowledge and put that effort towards our other friendships.

I am not sure what the next chapter but to my fren. Thank you for listening and being a rock. Let see what happen in the next chapter

Fustal - All about the heart - bloody

Futsal was great yesterday, got a knock on the ankle...heck aint a game for softies.... It was an uphill match 5 on 6 and we held the line well

I have to salute the 'korean' Tim, that bugger is a real kimakaze in playing and for the 1st time I was playing alongside him. Playing with a man less does have its disadvantages, but you could hear no one complaining... We fought hard and was losing 12-4...But we soldiered on. Effective we were playing well with Tim and I playing back leaving abang and Pok to marude upfront but they were not mobile players, heck almost half my age and they cant run as much as I can. Playing with lesser number of player requires heart. If you aint got it you can take a hike. For the 2nd continuous week, abang pulled out limping and making him a walking liability.

Every 50-50 ball we went for closing down and fighting hard. eventually it tool it toll on us but we did have FUN.

My ankle ...fucking hurts why coz I played wiht my heart and the keeper (without malice I hope) took me out at my ankles, saw a doc for 80 bucks but as my good fren would say Gambateh!! I played on hobbling a little but committed to the team

Booya

Monday, August 14, 2006

Reflection - maybe for just a minute

I need to reflect for a minute. How do we measure success? At the end of my life am I going to regret any amount of time I spent at the office, calling clients, having meeting, etc. Is that what really fulfills me? The ends justify the means they say. Juggling a fulltime job and a part time on the side lines can be quite compelling and at time down right frustrating. Aside from fatigue, mental fatigue and trying to juggle a life in balance, it really takes it toll on you. But you do it coz you need to earn that much.

Looking at the perspective of a housewife (based on mum) I really understand housewives I think. They work hard keeping a household together and, although they don't get paid, they are rich in moments, in memories, and cold in pain, hopefully they are appreciated by their children and, their husbands. They may be the only ones who really have their priorities in line.

Since entering the corporate world I have had having misgivings. Is this really for me? It is so hard to be so good at something but realize that is doesn't necessarily bring you joy. No matter when I was lecturing, managing, programming there was often the question, if this isn't right for me and I am good at it, what is right for me to do with my life? I am just blabbering some of the thoughts running through my head these days. Perhaps I am having them because I am always tired juggling two jobs and, therefore, trying to find satisfaction in my acheivements.

Right now the option is to provide. To provide the best and appropriate for those concerned. That the plan mate!!! Gambateh!!!

Liverpool Wins!!!



Liverpool stun Chelsea in season curtain-raiser!!!




Liverpool beat Chelsea 2-1 in the FA Community Shield at the Millennium Stadium on Sunday. Liverpool have not won the English championship since 1990, but sent a message to Chelsea and the rest of the Premiership hopefuls that they intend to be a force to be reckoned with this season.

Well Done KOPs!!!!


Sunday, August 13, 2006

In the NST today

Women over 45 still want ‘it’

13 Aug 2006



KUALA LUMPUR: Yes, our sex lives need help, but we’ll be damned if we tell anyone, say older women in a survey.

Friday, August 11, 2006

Count every " F " in the following text:

Count every " F " in the following text:

FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTI
FIC STUDY COMBINED WITH
THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS...

How many " Fs " really?

Guess and see la

Thursday, August 10, 2006

The week so far

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies with in us."

NOT
a good Thursday for me, its been a hetic week for me from the workout on sat working on the car on Sunday to Futsal and Badminton and working double shifts and hanging the pen (twice..well almost lol) it begun to take its toll on my body. Fever developing...

Coupled with the tightening of purse strings and lack of option of a short term loan, it has really began to hit me. The icing on the cake would surely be the mental scars

I have evolved to a certain extend of not caring, weather for the people of the house, internet or real fren. The fact of not caring stems from so many facts and events. So I think to myself time to let go and move forward. That way my mind is free to concentrate on other things, selfish as it may seem, it a working solution....

so fight the battles harder even if it makes u a little cold, care for the things that matters and walk away from battles that have no end.


Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.


Nokia Starlight Cinema

Kalai been bugging me to go for the Starlight Cinema with him, honestly I had a few person ask me to go along.

For 3 years from the time it was in Mont Kiara I been wanting to go, heck I would have loved to go alone, now its in Sentul Park. I fancy the idea of kicking back and watching the movie, reminds me of Coventry.

I dun know if I will go with the things happening around me. We shall see..

Badminton- Pushing the envelope ....

Badminton- Pushing the envelope especially when u get whacked

Badminton today was good. Had a good session to loosen up before the game dun know if it contributed or not. While warming up Jen decided to handicap me as his racquet whacked into my tricep. Damm it stung as the band formed on the muscle. Yes beneath the fat I do have muscle.

It was throbbing for a while but I was on fire as the game went on and one. I had never smashed and fought in a game that way and was pleased, but like I have always maintained for me its a learning curve, stopping careless mistakes, learning new techniques, reading the game better and most importantly having fun. I am a good loser but I get angry with my self when I know I can do better.


I enjoyed the game especially the last set as Jen playing opposite me poured it on and attack me. I remember 11-14 down 1st serve in their hand, my partner chanting saving energy for next game ( WTF??) I fought killing both their servers to life to fight another day. I juz smiled at my partner( "Aint over yet sonny" look on my face) fought back to 13-14. Though we lost I loved it.

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Weddings and Funerals

Today a frens father in law died. My condolences. Died of old age and yet the doc tried to prolong his death by 6 hours. Go figure.

Couple of weddings comings up. Already 2 shortlisted and they are just frens, relatives coming up also and a long ago exgfren tied the knot. I do home I get an invite for that. (How much emptier can an empty wallet get?) Time for more part time assignments and side income

As a fren would advise "Gambateh!!!"

Wedding and Funerals
It’s an unfortunate fact that an unfortunate event brings people back together. But it’s fortunate that it does bring people back together, you know what I mean.

When I posted a blog long ago bout a death of Aids... I related what I said in the above paragraph to that.

Just a matter of time

Hot & Cold Friends

Hot and Cold Friends are the kind of people who are all matey and pally one minute and completely ignoring you the next. For example, you might be chilling out with your pal at Bisik and the next day, when you suggest hanging out again she answers “no” and swans of with another friend. It goes on like that and you may end up falling out or doing exactly the same thing back. lol. Some dont see it but there are many that just keep you for the reasons said above.

The same can be said for seasonal friends who get burnt out for seeing you too much. In life and especially in relationships moderation is important, friends, partners, girl friends what you come too close or stay too far it starts coming apart. Some can survive it some cant but then again, that is part and parcel of relationships.

Its simple it takes 2 hands to make it work, the simplicity is if it dun work, turn the other cheek, if it still dun work and you are not happy, move on and move forward. Dont be caugth in a vicious quicksand, trust me it aint worth it.

Chatting dun irritate

If real life is tough enough, internet chatting it supposed to be quite the opposite. It one the many avenues to share, explore, discuss and have fun. A place that is like a comfort zone for an individual for watever reason. No matter the chat is at home, office, coffeehouse or even over the phone its a zone.

There are a lot of good reasons to hate chatting. You can hate it because it doesn't work right. You can hate it because people pester you. You can hate it because you can't pester the people you want to pester when you want to pester them hahaha You can hate it because within the casual chatting environments most people are phonies or posers. You can hate it in the business environment because you are likely being spied on in casual chat. And you can hate it because it is just plain dumb.

Having said all that, there are a lot of people, like me who are pro-chatting. Chat, is great, because the access to someone is instant. You see them online. You ping them and ask them something and you get an immediate response.

When some people use chats to follow on an agenda, use the forum to drive a nail, to push a point, to irritate, to aggitate so when that happen nowadays (despite giving people chances) I just switch off the chat and walk away.

So enjoy life

Short circuit - A clarifying point

This a so-called big mouth engineer degree versus sifu.

What is Short Circuit

A short circuit (sometimes abbreviated to short or s/c) is an accidental low-resistance connection between two nodes of an electrical circuit that are meant to be at different voltages.

Explanation

In circuit analysis, the term short circuit is used by analogy to designate a zero-impedence connection between two nodes. This forces the two nodes to be at the same voltage. In an ideal short circuit, this means there is no resistance and no voltage drop across the short. In simple circuit analysis, wires are considered to be shorts. In real circuits, the result is a connection of nearly zero impedance, and almost no resistance. In such a case, the current drawn is limited by the rest of the circuit.


Example

A short circuit is to connect the positive and negative terminals of a battery together with a low-resistance conductor, like a wire. With low resistance in the connection, a high current flows, causing the cell to deliver a large amount of energy in a short time. (See also:

Ohm's law, power).

In electrical devices, unintentional short circuits are usually caused when a wire's insulation breaks down, or when another conducting material (such as water) is introduced, allowing charge to flow along a different path than the one intended.


MY style of explaining

Short Circuit: If electricity has a choice between travelling through

a device (high resistance) or a wire (low resistance) it will always choose the wire! And because it can travel much faster with low resistance, electricity creates more heat in a short circuit. If you feel your batteries getting hot, you've got a short circuit! Disconnect a wire to the battery a.s.a.p. because the batteries will quickly be ruined.

For the record wiht my limited engineering knowledge, air kenot short circuit. 1000 apologies sifu



Monday, August 07, 2006

Another one for the weekend - one I can relate to

"John Milton: There's this beautiful girl just fucked me forty ways from Sunday... we're done, she's walking to the bathroom, she's trying to walk, she turns... she looks... it's me. Not the Trojan army just fucked her. Little ol' me. She gets this look on her face like: "How the hell did that happen?""


Mr.Jen.... hows this for a home run!!!

The Hunt for the Red October

Part of my movie weekend selection. A gripping lovely movie and book I could never get bored of.

Based on the Best Selling novel by Tom Clancy this film tells the story of Captain Marko Ramius, the skipper of the Soviet Union's newest nuclear sub. Jack Ryan of the CIA gets involved in a tense, tangled hunt for this sub, when Ramius defects, taking the "Red October" with him. The story is an action packed techno-thriller.


This movie is not entirely true to Tom Clancy's vision and book. Tom Clancy is an American superpatriot and nationalist. He loves to gush about the superiority of the American military establishment and its high technology. This movie puts a more sympathetic face on the Russians and the commoner's point of view. Sean Connery plays a very likable Russian Submarine Commander. Of course, Sean Connery is always going to steal the show in any movie. He's kind of like the John Wayne of the last twenty five years. But the supporting actors are also engaging as well. Scott Glenn, Fred Thompson, and James Earl Jones all do very well at commanding our attention.




Among the parts that I loved in the movie... between Ryan and Jordan's Jeffrey Pelt where Ryan sticks his neck out and Pelt pounces, telling the analyst that if he believes Ramius is defecting, he should go out there and try to collect him. Pelt's no humanitarian, understand, he just wants to keep his options open: "Listen, I'm a politician, which means I'm a cheat and a liar, and when I'm not kissing babies I'm stealing their lollipops." hahaha


"The Hunt for Red October" is one of those rare thrillers that manages to keep you interested and excited the entire time. Not many movies today come close to being on-par with this. This is a classic thriller that keeps you asking for more. It has great acting and directing, and it will keep you on your feet the entire time.

Quotes

Capt. Bart Mancuso: [after hearing Jones's findings] Have I got this straight, Jonesy? A $40 million computer tells you you're chasing an earthquake, but you don't believe, and you come up with this on your own?
Seaman Jones: Yes, sir.
Capt. Bart Mancuso: Including all the navigation maps?
Seaman Jones: Sir, I-I've got all the...
Capt. Bart Mancuso: Relax, Jonesy. You sold me.



Captain Ramius: There's one thing you haven't yet asked me: why?
Jack Ryan: Well, I thought you would tell me when you felt ready.
Captain Ramius: Well, there are those who believe that we should attack the United States first. Settle everything in one moment. Red October was built for that purpose.


Poltical Officer Ivan Putin: [Reading from a book belonging to Ramius, quoting the Bible] And the seventh angel poured his bowl into the air, and a voice cried out from heaven, saying: "It is done." A man with your responsibilities reading about the end of the world. And what's this? "I am become Death, the Destroyer of Worlds."
Captain Ramius: It is an ancient Hindu text, quoted by an American.
Poltical Officer Ivan Putin: An American?
Captain Ramius: Mmm. He invented the atomic bomb, and was later accused of being a communist.

The Apprentice Foreman


hahaha!! This is one episode I wont get fired from so they are stuck with me!!!!

How this came about ... Jen has always been offering me the ooportunity to work on my car at his garage, way back from even before his daughters birthday. The distance, the inexperience, the humility of going there was causing a lot of hinderance not to mention the tightening of the wallet. Push come to shove, my quiet, but draining weekend (ahhhhhhh) turned into a fun Sunday after some work I headed to his place bout lunch time.

We started working on the car, Project Nissan Sunny. Like the series American chopper there are times when the Sifu must step in and there are times you must step up to the place. Without the fear of being blur, I asked the questions to then my knowledge bout car maintenance and servicing would grow. I did hands on a various number of things and there are times I would ask that I do some of the tasks.

We worked on the following, Window Washer and pump, the air-condition, the wiring and the radiator fan. The Window washer pump ( I owe Jen one set and Jen owes his dad 1 set) was services , rehosed and being an old car. The mechanics of resetting the nozzle and flushing the nozzle was not an easy task. The finished result was a success.

The aircond was toughie, learned how to actually service the aircond, vacuuming it, the importance of refrigeration oil and getting it to work again. Jen, I did not forget to put the window up today morning hahaha and yes I felt the cold air. I did not dare ask Jen bout taking pics of me working on the car, with the fingers all greasy.

I got under the car, into the car, learn how to use the proper tools. Tube cutting, flaring etc etc Got all greasy arrhggh arrghhh arrghg (ala Tim - Home Improvement)




The wiring was not an easy task. We had to call the Sifu's Sifu. The Sifu's Sifu landed with manual for the car, the frigging schematics for the wiring the cables.

Salute the Sifu's Sifu


A break for tea to recharge and refresh we got back to work on the radiator fan, we noted that the bypass was done on the fan and it made it on from the onset instead of operating only when the temperature rose.

We finished, tired drained and beaming with pride of the task we accomplished...headed back to Jen's Place....

Saving Private Ryan - How much is one life worth??

In the Last Great Invasion of the Last Great War, The Greatest Danger for Eight Men was Saving... One.
During WWII, Chief of Staff, General Marshall is informed that three of a woman's sons have been killed and that she's going to receive the notifications of their demise at the same time. And when he learns that a fourth son is still unaccounted for, the General decides to send a unit to find him and bring him back, despite being told that it's highly unlikely that he is still alive and the area that he was known to be at is very dangerous. So the unit consisting of 8 men are sent to find him but as stated it's very dangerous and one by one, each of them are being picked off.


This a story, within a story...There are not many films that I've seen that have actually made me physically react to the action on screen. I'm not speaking of the three-dimensional variety either. What I mean to say is this film had me contorting and cringing at the gripping, horrifying action on screen. Somehow the extreme violence can be justified as the whole world knows that this is an important chapter in human history and a startling, graphic depiction only adds more weight to the seriousness of the subject matter. I'd have to say this is probably one of the most important films of the 20th century because of its frank approach to one of the darkest periods of our time on this earth... along side with Schindler's List and Band of Brothers.

I like war movies I like the motion the characters go thur and the emotions I go thru.......This is definetely one of my top movies to watch. It includes a great cast, great action and a great story. I never really knew much about the second world war until I saw this movie. After I saw this movie, I became more interested in history. After watching this movie a couple of times, I became more familiar with the second world war and how bad it really was.
Its really graphic not something I would sit with a bowl of popcorn.

Memorable Quotes : Captain Miller: Sometimes I wonder if I've changed so much, my wife is even gonna recognize me whenever it is I get back to her, and how I'll ever be able to, tell about days like today. Ahh, Ryan. I don't know anything about Ryan, I don't care. The man means nothing to me; he's just a name. But if, you know, if going to Rem"al, and finding him so he can go home, if that earns me the right to get back to my wife, well then, then that's my mission.

Capt Miller Dies.. in Summary

Gen. George C. Marshall: My dear Mrs Ryan: It's with the most profound sense of joy that I write to inform you your son, Private James Ryan, is well and, at this very moment, on his way home from European battlefields. Reports from the front indicate James did his duty in combat with great courage and steadfast dedication, even after he was informed of the tragic loss your family has suffered in this great campaign to rid the world of tyranny and oppresion. I take great pleasure in joining the Secretary of War, the men and women of the U.S. Army, and the citizens of a grateful nation in wishing you good health and many years of happiness with James at your side. Nothing, not even the safe return of a beloved son, can compensate you, or the thousands of other American families, who have suffered great loss in this tragic war. I might share with you some words which have sustained me through long, dark nights of peril, loss, and heartache. And I quote: "I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the somlemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the alter of freedom." -Abraham Lincoln. Yours very sincerely and respectfully, George C. Marshall, General, Chief of Staff.


Sunday, August 06, 2006

Getting Emotional with Ladder 49

Part of my nostalgic weekend form war movies I caught Ladder 49 again.

Firefighters have always been held in high regard. They run into burning buildings while everyone else is running out. They put their lives on the line to save others. It is a courage that most of us would like to think we have, but few of us are ever put into a position to test.



Chief Kennedy: People are always asking me how is it that firefighters run into a burning building when everyone else is running out. Courage is the answer.

......and duty in case you didn't know. Ladder 49 is about the brave men of Baltimore Firehouse number 49. The film explores their lives, their joys and their grief by way of a compelling glimpse into their families and the individual sacrifices that every firefighter must face when they charge out of the firehouse to save another building or another life at great personal risk and sometimes a great loss.

It a great drama different from your Backdraft...The story is told in a series of flashbacks after the now veteran firefighter Jack is trapped inside a raging inferno. The movie progresses as Jack finds acceptance by his fellow firefighters and enters into love and marriage with Linda (Jacinda Barrett). Thereafter, both Jack and Linda struggle and ultimately accept the negative and dangerous aspects of the job as the deaths and severe injuries take their toll on Jack and his fellow firefighters. The memories of his early life as a firefighter flood Jack's mind while he struggles to break through a wall to make his rescue easier.

This film seems to be authentically about real people doing real things in the closely-knit community of firefighters. In fact, I must admit to being somewhat envious of the intimate community they all seemed to share. A community where everyone was connected and concerned about one another, rather than the indifference seen in most of today's society. A person must have felt that he/she really belonged and mattered to the rest. A collective where you could rely on each other for emotional, financial, and any other assistance you needed.


Ron Howard (Happy Days) puts the audience in the middle of the fire on the screen so well that you cringe when a character is hurt and shed a few tears when one pays the ultimate price. (Yeah men do cry)


Chief Kennedy: It's never an easy thing, saying goodbye to a brother firefighter, it's not. And this time, particularly is difficult for me because I watched Jack grow into a, well, into one of the finest firefighters I've ever known. He joined this department because he wanted to help people, who knows how many homes are still standing because Jack was there or how many lives were spared. He gave his life for that cause. We'll never forget you Jack. And we're better for having known you. But I make you this one promise, tomorrow when that bell rings, we will be back on the truck, because you were the bravest of the brave. People are always asking me, how is it that firefighters run into a burning building when everyone else is running out? Well, Jack, you answered that question by saving another man's life. Your courage is the answer. And today we will be as brave as you, by not mourning you, but by celebrating your life. So I'd like everyone to stand up and celebrate the life of Jack Morrison.


Lets celebrate the lives

Thursday, August 03, 2006

Difference?? Go figure

SMS chat

Guy1 : Whats ur plans for the weekend
Guy2 : Nothing much, whats urs
Guy1 : Lets meet up and do something
Guy2 : Yeah why not. See you Friday then
Guy1 : Friday i m tied up
Guy2 : Sat then.
Guy1: C u then.


Guy1: What you plans for the weekend?
Girl1: Dun know yet?
Guy1: Are you free?
Girl1: What you like to go?
Guy1: Anything, anywhere just meet u la.
Girl1:........
Guy1:.........
Girl1:........
Guy1:.........
Girl1:........
Guy1:.........
Girl1:........
Guy1:.........
Girl1:........
Guy1:.........(getting irritated here)
Girl1:........
Guy1:.........
Girl1:........
Guy1:.........(past irritating point)
Guy1: Wei simple question... are you free to meet up or not, if not its ok
Girl1: If you not keen in meeting up, why ask in the 1st place, why say 'if not its ok'?
Guy1: (white hair already starting to form) sheesh just a simple question.
Girl1: You did not actualy want to meet me or meet half way,
Girl1: you are not sincere in wanting to meet me
Guy1: (almost heartattack) Surrender!!!

A simple illustration, not to stereo type women or my frens but just an illustration how complex it can get.

Shuttle Cock

Getting to the top and staying on top are 2 different things. This weke in badminton was about staying on top and boy was it tough.

While trying to work to improving your game, ther eis always a tendency to make mistake and such mistakes translate into the game running away from you, when you finally get a grip.... you and your partner are down 9-0, 7-2 or 12-2 then you claw back into the game.

I am the only indian there and yet they do not discriminate against me. A game is a game, Played my 1st RM1 game today and lost but won back later one.

My arsenal is my drop shot, it deadly to the extent the guy across the net exclaimed in frustration cursing. Jen was kind enough to translate and brought a smile to my face. My weakness is my back hands, i can still chop to the net, andcross court net...I can measure the shuttle to land near the net and it become predictable. A far cry from a point, I could never take a backhand at all.

My consistance in my game is also a sore point. I could have a run of 4 -5 points then rattle of a series of stupid mistakes. When I am on fire, I am flying. In some series of exchanges I know the space to push the shuttle to and make the guy rung around not to take it to the next level.

Time to go jogging!! Thoress where are you.... I dun mind you be my fitness coach lol

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

2 moon in the sky in August

No I am not drunk!!! hehehe


Mars

This month and next, Earth is catching up with Mars in an encounter that will culminate in the closest approach between the two planets in recorded history. The next time Mars may come this close isin 2287

The Red Planet is about to be spectacular!

This month and next, Earth is catching up with Mars in an encounter that will culminate in the closest approach between the two planets in recorded history. The next time Mars may come this close is in 2287. Due to the way Jupiter's gravity tugs on Mars and perturbs its orbit, astronomers can only be certain that Mars has not come this close to Earth in the Last 5,000 years, but it may be as long as 60,000 years before it happens again.

The encounter will culminate in August.. Be sure to watch the sky on Aug. 27 12:30 am.
It will look like the earth has 2 moons.

The encounter will culminate on August 27th whenMars comes to within 34,649,589 miles of Earth and will be (next to the moon) the brightest object in the night skyMars will look as large as the full moon to the naked eye

Mars will look as large as the full moon to the naked eye.
Mars will be easy to spot. At the beginning of August it will rise in the east at 10p.m. and reach its azimuth at about 3 a.m. So, mark your calendar at the beginning of August to see Mars grow progressively brighter and brighter throughout the month.
Share this with your children and grandchildren.

The Single Child - All for one

Each time Jnr Vadai asks, "When will we be having another baby?" The answer is polite but the emotiions trouble inside. Too young to know the politics, the scarifices, the invidividual scars and ......(sigh), he is just a kid and a darling....

These days, it seems no sooner have you had one child when people start to wonder when you will be having the next one. But not all of us hanker after the model family of two kids. For many, one child is enough. It may be a question of financial necessity, medical difficulties, age, a traumatic experience the first time around or a straightforward matter of personal choice.

At the junctions where we stand after 5 years is a world of a difference before Jnr came into the pic.Even in this day and age when more and more people are choosing to be single child families, it seems there is still a stigma attached to this decision. Parents are often criticised for being selfish - saying that the child will be lonely or spoilt without siblings. And this is true for many families - while some really want to stay with one child, others have no choice because they started their family late or have medical complications.

Pros and cons of having just one child

Pros:

* More time to spend together
* Less expensive
* Potentially fewer family arguments
* There's no need for hand-me-down clothes and toys
* Only one pregnancy and birth!

Cons:

* No special sibling bonds
* May feel lonely at times, eg on holidays, rainy weekends etc
* It can be difficult to keep them amused as toddlers - brothers or sisters can help!
* An only child may be more spoiled than one with brother or sisters
* No companionship from siblings in later life

After my session in Klang yesterday, walk a mile in my shoes ... I say...walk...

The Good & Bad of Casual Sex between Friends

Before I get whiplashed this is a general out look in the every evolving society, its acceptance and its beliefs... Today through my meeting of people in the real world and cyber world, I have come to notice, understand and to a certain extent comment on this scope of relationships. FB is a widely used terminology, In short they call it a FUCK BUDDY but in actuallity its called "Friends with Benefits"

There's a time-honored saying that goes something like this: "Friends are friends, pals are pals, and buddies sleep together." I think it is mainly poking fun at those who use the words describe friendships that are, shall we say, more than platonic. Like the term "FF" -- short for F*ck Friends -- also known as "friends with benefits."

FF are friends, or maybe only acquaintances, who have a spoken or an unspoken agreement to have sex occasionally, without ever pursuing a romantic relationship. As guys and ladies become increasingly free to indulge in physical relationships with relatively fewer consequences (yippie birth control!), sex is now more casual than ever. Its out there.

As a result, some friends decide to take it to the next level, just for fun, without all the trappings of an actual relationship. Being simply FF is definitely easier at first, but are the negatives that come with it worth the promise of casual sex?

"Check out these pros and cons and decide for yourself. from the NET

Sex with no strings
The most apparent positive point about being FF is the availability of easy sex, without all the pressures and limitations of a relationship. The beauty of this situation is its clarity -- if both sides are honest going into this, then both will know that it's solely about sex. She can never accuse you of using her, or vice-versa, because you've both acknowledged from the start that you're, in fact, using each other. Using each other in a good way, however, because removing all the emotional baggage from sex makes it much simpler and potentially more enjoyable.

Tip: Nonetheless, if you want to give the FF thing a shot, remember the importance of honesty from the get-go. If one of you is going into this secretly hoping for more, then the problem of dishonesty arises, and that person is probably in for a nasty disappointment when it doesn't play out that way. And trust me, nine times out of 10, FF never develop into anything more. It's much more likely that just the opposite will happen. FF tend to slowly drift out of each other's lives over time, or if they start seeing someone else seriously."


I know this is not an accepted norm and no one is asking you to accept them but dont be a horse with blinders. Today's world this is a norm like it or not. We see it on TV, Movies, and so many other avenues especially in real life.

Walk A Mile In My Shoes

Song says it all - vadai will survive

"Walk A Mile In My Shoes"

(As recorded by Joe South)
JOE SOUTH

If I could be you and you could be me for just one hour
If we could find a way to get inside each other's mind
If you could see me through your eyes instead of your ego
I believe you'd be surprised to see that you'd been blind.

Walk a mile in my shoes, walk a mile in my shoes
And before you abuse, criticize and accuse
Walk a mile in my shoes.

Now your whole world you see around you is just a reflection
And the law of common says you reap just what you sow
So unless you've lived a life of total perfection
You'd better be careful of every stone that you throw.

Walk a mile in my shoes, walk a mile in my shoes
And before you abuse, criticize and accuse
Walk a mile in my shoes.

And yet we spend the day throwing stones at one another
'Cause I don't think or wear my hair the same way you do
Well I may be common people but I'm your brother
And when you strike out and try to hurt me its a-hurtin' you.

Walk a mile in my shoes, walk a mile in my shoes
And before you abuse, criticize and accuse
Walk a mile in my shoes.

There are people on reservations and out in the ghettos
And brother there but for the grace of God go you and I
If I only had the wings of a little angel
Don't you know I'd fly to the top of the mountain, and then I'd cry.

Walk a mile in my shoes, walk a mile in my shoes
And before you abuse, criticize and accuse
Walk a mile in my shoes, shoes.

Dating Lingo

At the point of conversation someone asked me whats 1st base or if I reached 1st base ...duh!! here is a brief explanation

American girls had used baseball terminology. "First base" referred to embracing and kissing; "second base" referred to groping and fondling and deep, or "French," kissing, commonly known as "heavy petting"; "third base" referred to fellatio, usually known in polite conversation by the ambiguous term "oral sex"; and "home plate" meant conception-mode intercourse, known familiarly as "going all the way."

In the year 2000, in the era of hooking up, "first base" meant deep kissing ("tonsil hockey"), groping, and fondling; "second base" meant oral sex; "third base" meant going all the way; and "home plate" meant learning each other's names......I wonder in Malaysia what sport we can use to emulate the terminologies of the American Dating game Lingo...hmmm sepak takraw...galah panjang(anyone remember this?).....

Monday, July 31, 2006

Tables turned around

Before I get label a male chuvanist hahaha ya right!! This is a superb piece sent to me by Mr.Scud



Just a thought?

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

FOR EXAMPLE

One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."

I said "WHAT????!!! What was that?!"

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear..."You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man."

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits.

She couldn't decide which one to take so I told her we'll just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We went onto the jewellery department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings.

Let me tell you...she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis.

I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.

Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier." I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it."

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled "WHAT???!!!" I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either.

Thanks

Ferrari dominate German Grand Prix

Ferrari Wins!!! Again!!!

Michael Schumacher’s third victory in succession - and his fourth in his home Grand Prix - slashed another six points from Fernando Alonso’s crumbling world championship lead on Sunday, as the Spaniard could only finish a trailing fifth in the German Grand Prix at Hockenheim. hahahahahahaahaahha

Shumi only and I say this ONLY need to win the remaining 6 races hmmmm lets seeee

Saturday With the Birthday Boy





Lazing around the hse the Birthday boy drag me for lunch at Avenue K nice place to have lunch and very economical. Finally lunch was at 2.30pm after he spent a good amout of out time there at Toy-R-Us.

Now Toy-R-Us are a big place but this fella stick to one section only...No prizes for guessing which section. TRANSFORMERS!!

What do I do while waiting past lunch, ronda-ronda the place twice then take pics of him at his happy land for my blog hahaha Hungry Ready mau makan....!!!


This is one man's love for Transformers and he is not alone

An got movie coming out somemore!!!! I only love Generation 1

Autobots vs Decepticons....Optimus Prime vs Megatron