Thursday, November 16, 2006

Online Poll

Here is an interesting poll. While chatting with xxie we decided to take a poll based on pictures.

Pic of me and my buddy taken a long while back. Pic 1 me and her
Pic 2 Me holding a glass of beer and she holding a glass of coke,
Pic 3 Me holding a glass of coke and she holding a glass of beer,

Guess if Pic 2 or Pic 3 is real (its either one)




Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Where I go to relax when I need a break.

Good one

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Life is a drawing without an eraser.

Xxxie hits a home run

Xxxie is always a favourtie read of mine and in her last blog I was intrigued by this article and how true it rang to some of us

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Change yourself before you change others!

Sometimes we may have friends who want us to be friends with their friends. Not everyone gets along with each other, most of the time we are still friendly with our friend’s friends… because of our friend! *am I making any sense at all?*

I know I have some friends that my other friends might not like, but then I know I can’t please everyone and I can’t exclude anyone just to please someone. I have no intentions to disrespect my friends or make them feel uncomfortable in any way. I don’t expect them to be on friendly basis even though they hate each others guts. What I expect is they respect me as a friend and put their differences a side and just get along for my sake… yea I know it’s too much to ask but I would do the same for them! Seriously I would...................
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So, if I so happen to hang out with anyone that YOU hates? Respect me as your friend and not take things to seriously, understand the reason why I am still friendly with them is because he/she is still my friend."


We all wuld handle this different ways but the gist of the blog is simple, sometime somehow or somewhere you gonna end up in a situation where ur friend and ur other friend dont get along. So you make a decision (watever that decision maybe) and move forward. If the dun like then take a hike

A picture paints a thousand words

What Life Is About

What Life Is About by Denise, posted Nov 01, 2006

life is not about keeping score
it’s not about how many people will call you .
it’s not about who you have dated or haven’t dated at all.
its not about who you have kissed
or who you have slept with
or what sport you play.
it’s not about who likes you
it’s not about your shoes or your hair color.
it’s not about your skin color
or where you live
or what school you go to.
it’s not about money, clothes or people you hang out with.
it’s not about being alone.
it’s about overcoming obstacles of life.


Note : 1 step at a time

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Guess what Coming to the Cinema

FEBRUARY 2007
ROCKY BALBOA

Former heavyweight champion Rocky Balboa steps out of retirement and back into the ring, pitting himself against a new rival decades after his initial glory. When a computer simulated boxing match declares Rocky Balboa the victor over current champion Mason "The Line" Dixon, the legendary fighter's passion and spirit are reignited. But when his desire to fight in small, regional competitions is trumped by promoters calling for a rematch of the cyber-fight, Balboa must weigh the mental and physical risks of a high profile exhibition match against his need to be in the ring.

DECEMBER 2006
GRIDIRON GANG

The uplifting story of detention camp probation officer Sean Porter, who creates a high-school-level football team from a ragtag group of dangerous teenage inmates as a means to teach them self-respect and social responsibility. He is joined in this experiment by co-worker, Malcolm Moore. But Porter must first overcome almost universal resistance from the powers that be - his skeptical bosses and coaches at rival high schools who don't want their players mixing it up with convicted criminals on the football field.

DECEMBER 2006

ERAGON
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Based on the best-selling novel, this is an epic fantasy-adventure about a young farm boy named Eragon whose destiny is revealed with the help of a dragon. Eragon, now a Dragon Rider, is swept into a world of magic and power, discovering that he can save - or destroy - an Empire.

DECEMBER 2006

The one I am dying to see with my office mates a malay movie (no kidding)

Pelakon

Rahim Razali ... Cikgu Elyas
Fatimah Abu Bakar
... Rubiah
Eizlan Yusof
... Azlan
Fasha Sandha
... Azura
Nanu Baharuddin
... Dyan
Que Haidar
... Dhani
Rashidi Ishak
... Harris
Rita Rudaini ... Airin
Mohd Pierre Andre ... Taufiq
Sharifah Amani ... Arianna
Baizura Kahar ...
Nasrizal Ngasri
...
Tony Eusoff ...
Vanida Imran
...

Filem ini adalah jalinan lima cerita yang meraikan keajaiban cinta: mengenai Harris dengan isterinya Airin; hubungan Dyan dengan adiknya, Dhani; cinta Elyas seorang pesara guru dengan pemilik gerai, Rubiah; hubungan Azlan & Azura, dan hubungan Arianna & Taufiq - di mana semuanya saling berkait dan berlatar kota metropolitan Kuala Lumpur.

Cinta is about the universality of love in five interesting stories.






Monday, November 13, 2006

Kop oh Kop Wat happen!!!

This said it all


In a critical Premiership clash at Emirates Stadium, Arsenal dominated possession and strolled to an easy 3-0 win over a disappointing Liverpool team.

Sunday, November 12, 2006

Deepavali part 2

Meet my SAC- Special Assiatant Cook who want not only to boss others in the kitched and well as participate, mind you actively in the activities. Wont take NO for an answer, kind of reminds me like me when I was kid always poking my nose in the kitchen.

Anyway we had a lovely cooking session, and this year coz we are on a tight budget we made all the cookies at home. Later on that night we had 1 round of crackers session. It was lovely.















My Crazy Sat / Beach Club Sucks Last Night

What started out as a routine weekend with a conference call penciled it turned out to a scary Sat evening..... I was chuggling away at y blogs and chats while I was getting ready for my tender work in the evening.. soon it was an sms then a phone call from Klang followed by a flurry of opinions....ever since the fact the elders knew where I lived its been a back biting issue. Did it make a difference if I was 300 miles away or 30 miles away. Nothing changes.

Finished the conference call (thank god only 30 minutes) I sms Kalai and Beem for plans... then I just sat there for a few minutes...The walls were closing in.... then an sms... just fed up... put the card on the table said I am going to go out of the house, my mind was blank... started the car and sat there for a few minutes

Driving a little aimlessly I settled to go to beach since Com gonna be there with Sunder it would be a welcome distraction, XXiee was going to be there. Along the way I sms a fren knowing she had bigger things to handle, then apologised for smsing her... Driving into the parking lot I met a face of a fren just sitting by the mamak stall. Sam!! my 30 minutes with Sam was a welcome relief and it help me talk about what I was going thru as well give me enough distraction.... I wanted ot go home then but Sam pulled me into Beach. Commie Xxiie and Kris were already there chugging away. Commie kept ribbing me about me not drinking... (I shall have the last laugh)

I had coke and I did not have to pay for it, sitting down wiht Xiie and Com head banding was a nice scene. How ironic that at one instant the roles that night were reversed (Xxiee and I gonna put an ironic poll online) dun know if Sam sense I was getting better but he slowly slipped away...I sat there on the couch and let the ebb flow away. Xiie was good company so was Com and I enjoyed their banter. Managed a few smile but the events of the evening kept playing in my mind.

Beach Club last night sucked royally. Not coz I was not drinking the music was so retro and so bad I could not even take my mind of things.... Com 2 frens were trying to pick up chick there for a nightly hump...one got lucky I guess.. Watever expectation I had of the place since not being there after a long time was a definate let down that I whispered to a fren I was going home early. Imagine that!!! So they adjourned to mamak where I had a milo ais then I drove home. Reaching home I gave Sam a call thanking him.


Time to sleep....

Saturday, November 11, 2006

Day 11

So its 11 days and my cousin called me to find out how I was coping. It was just fine...tomato juice seem to be my staple drink right now and I am enjoying it. She said she admired me and I said its no biggie. I can choose not to drink.

Told her bout the dinner that coming up next Sat and all the guys who would be the from Com, Svejjen, my suppliers and clients and I still wont be drinking. At the end of it the egoistical me would hav won a bet. Ironically she turns a year older on the 16th December heheh revenge I guess

Single/Distant Parenting

I am not going to pretend that single parenting is easy or even a desired lifestyle choice for the majority of people, but when I am able to look beyond the vast challenges, I am able to recognize some positive benefits.

Parents and children alike hate to be separated by distance. It robs you of the close hour-by-hour relationship you always dreamed of having with your children. It strains the already-stressed trust between you. The easiest action by far is to resign yourself to being an uninvolved parent, enduring the semi-annual ritual of gift-buying without significance, visits without joy, and phone calls without feeling.

Cut the crap. Call, talk relate the events and you find some solace. Watever put you in that position does not matter anymore not to anyone at all... your build your relationship from where you are. People who be negative about what you are doing, give them the finger and shut them off. They are no good to you. What good to you are people who dun give you support? Support does not mean constant prodding but who knowing when to keep shut.

Do not let anyone alienate you or your position?

Hate

Do you have hate in you? If it different from ignoring another human being of their existance? Is it that lately whatever they do if burn you up and you let it build within you waiting to explode ...hmmmmm

Urban Dict had a few descriptions

hate

(noun). Calculated and/or intentional intense dislike; an intensified and elevated level of anger; an unnatural emotion (i.e. hate is something that is derived from natural emotions such as anger or fear); learned dislike or loathing of another person, group, or thing.

Hate is the root of much of the world's suffering.

hate

when you dislike someone so much that if you and the other person were in an empty room with a knife in the middle, one or both would be dead

thats when you know you hate someone

hate

a special kind of love given to people who suck

example you suck I hate you

hate

Hate...Hatred...

Hate is when someone pisses you off so much they cause you to go fucking apeshit when they cross your mind. Your heart rate will speed up and feel fucking fury inside your brain. You loathe and despise but to a much greater extent. If that person died, you would not not care, you would laugh and spit on their carcass. When you feel hatred, you think murder is perfectly acceptable and you don't give a shit what happens. You could possibly go crazy if you let your hatred the most of you.

To be honest, it really is hard to describe hate in a universal term. Everyone has a different point of view on a definition for hate.

What I said is how I feel when I hate someone. Hate is what drives some people, it has taken over their conscience. We know these as serial killers, psycopaths, terrorist, dictators, tyrants, warmongers etc.

I believe there is a big difference between anger and hatred. Anger is mostly caused from a brief period of frustration and you get over it eventually. Hate is sort of like a disease that's take over your mind and body. Everyone hates something or someone there's no denying that, but don't think about it or you will snap one day, like I did.

I have hated before and I am beginning to hate again.....only time will tell

A fren's Birthday

My friend is a great guy; mature, responsible, intelligent, and hardworking. Yesterday he turned a year older and now he is 43!!! I actually forgot his birthday and not shy to admit. Bad Vadai

Happy Birthday Kalai



The funny thing about it is no matter where we go or end up going (many will confirm this) somewhere somwhow some girl know him. Beats the shit out of me, we could be walking in a bazaar, he would bump into some girl.

Girls interested in him? Hell yeah so many would the key features if we are hanging out a he brings a friend watch how they eat then you will know. Hahahaha Still eligible

Happy Birthday Buddy

Deepavali part 1

Let the pics tell their story...cover the Port Klang wet market...Jnr Vadai haggling with the Chicken Rice Shop seller over the choice of meat and pre deepavali preparations and coooking dinner... and a hamper to the house...Enjoy








My Crazy Sat / Beach Club Sucks Last Night

What started out as a routine weekend with a conference call penciled it turned out to a scary Sat evening..... I was chuggling away at y blogs and chats while I was getting ready for my tender work in the evening.. soon it was an sms then a phone call from Klang followed by a flurry of opinions....ever since the fact the elders knew where I lived its been a back biting issue. Did it make a difference if I was 300 miles away or 30 miles away. Nothing changes.

Finished the conference call (thank god only 30 minutes) I sms Kalai and Beem for plans... then I just sat there for a few minutes...The walls were closing in.... then an sms... just fed up... put the card on the table said I am going to go out of the house, my mind was blank... started the car and sat there for a few minutes

Driving a little aimlessly I settled to go to beach since Com gonna be there with Sunder it would be a welcome distraction, XXiee was going to be there. Along the way I sms a fren knowing she had bigger things to handle, then apologised for smsing her... Driving into the parking lot I met a face of a fren just sitting by the mamak stall. Sam!! my 30 minutes with Sam was a welcome relief and it help me talk about what I was going thru as well give me enough distraction.... I wanted ot go home then but Sam pulled me into Beach. Commie Xxiie and Kris were already there chugging away. Commie kept ribbing me about me not drinking... (I shall have the last laugh)

I had coke and I did not have to pay for it, sitting down wiht Xiie and Com head banding was a nice scene. How ironic that at one instant the roles that night were reversed (Xxiee and I gonna put an ironic poll online) dun know if Sam sense I was getting better but he slowly slipped away...I sat there on the couch and let the ebb flow away. Xiie was good company so was Com and I enjoyed their banter. Managed a few smile but the events of the evening kept playing in my mind.

Beach Club last night sucked royally. Not coz I was not drinking the music was so retro and so bad I could not even take my mind of things.... Com 2 frens were trying to pick up chick there for a nightly hump...one got lucky I guess.. Watever expectation I had of the place since not being there after a long time was a definate let down that I whispered to a fren I was going home early. Imagine that!!! So they adjourned to mamak where I had a milo ais then I drove home. Reaching home I gave Sam a call thanking him.

Friday, November 10, 2006

Child Abuse Awareness Program

Last month I was in Concorde hotel for an appointment with a client who was staying there. Back from the days when Concorde used to be my home away from home, it was nice to be back in there again. Sitting in crossroad waiting for my appointment show up. I noticed a box at the entrance with various kinds of bears outside. Upon closer inspection its a collection for a child abuse program. Digging my wallet for every dollar I could find I was more then Happy to part with it for the cause. 20 bucks to raise fund for Child Abuse awareness. Who not?

They would deserve it more then me. I had about 30 minutes of waiting time playing with the doll and ended with the following pics. I felt happy that a small contribution




























































So one end up on my dash board!!!!

Parting Words

Quote "Before today is over, 3 CHILDREN WILL DIE from being abused. At least one of them will be a baby - less than a year old. They other two probably haven't yet celebrated their 5th birthdays. More than 510 other children will be physically abused today and another 270 will be sexually abused. In total, over 2,700 children will be abused today.

Tomorrow - the horror starts all over again, just as it does everyday. "

Black Monday/Tuesday

Monday was black as Jnr Vadai fell ill and it took a turn for the worse when he was hospitalized....I needed to rush back... delegating all I needed delegate was on the phone driving back still delegating work.

It was not that I had no confidence in the capabilities of the people in Klang handling these things but the answers they gave me were not giving me any confidence either. Stepped up drove down and took charge. He was having a viral fever and symptoms of an infection, shelved my freelance work and spend the night there. It was the same same for the next few days shuttling up and down and also juggling my freelance web designing job. Finally he got discharge. As usual stupid comments bout me being away and etc etc lead to some conversation getting out of hand.

So the parting comment was if they want me back my rule and my condition that I said the day I let stays. With there single sentence all the laser mouth shut up.Ain't life sweet. Everyone want to comment but no one want to make sacrifices. Booya

In the midst of that Tuesday was a real bitch. The car got semi flooded, the exhaust dropped all in the midst of doing my freelance work. Dragged the car with the dropped exhaust in front of Agi's place. Later after all had finished Beem and Kalai were helpful in helping me to my car where I dismantle the exhaust and took it to the workshop and got it done.. more bills to pay... seems like the more I earn freelancing the more expenses seem to crop up. Well its ok...so long as the body is willing the mind will will it on. Time to see what Vadai is made off.