A gal deserve a great guy

Over the weekend, after loading up my sms, a fren sms the a mutual fren of ours had gone on a date with a nice guy (who we both know) the comments that came out of it was "she deserved a great guy" for a moment I froze, reading that line in the sms again and again. At 2am it sure can keep you wide awake. Key words is "great guy" after much pause I replied in my usual manner " Yeah right and they said before the world was flat". The recipient of the sms never understood my reply then again I never expected her to.

Through time, I have come across a number of female friends talk/chat/sms with me about their difficulty in 'finding a great guy.' On the surface, the search for a good man doesn't sound too difficult - women generally want someone who is funny, down-to-earth, who makes them feel like they're beautiful and fun to be around, and who is at least marginally attractive, above all treat them with respect.(Not bringing in Average Joe) Note : If guys want above average looking girls to go out with, then girls got to have the right of choice to go with above average looking guys. Sorry but this knife will cut both ways.

So why so difficult to get a great guy? Are women just looking in the wrong places? I tend to think that there is a significantly larger pool of talented, intriguing, fantastic women out there than there are men. I agree that great men are in increasingly short supply. We have jerks and jerks!!! I know a few great guys, I love to intro them, any takers lol

If you take a graph and you line up the level of sophistication and matureness of women in general you find an almost level line high up. Now take it for a guy, and find that line scribbling up and down faster then a lie detector test. (This is not guy bashing)

I think one of the reasons women can't find a great guy is because they dun know how too. Girls are their own worst enemy based on hand me downs. Women dun know the love language of men. Women dun know how to get them interested and most importantly keep them interested. (guys are confused of what makes a women tick)

What defines a 'great guy?' What are the characteristics and qualities that make a man one to be admired, respected?

Think of the people you know, the men you talk to and interact with on a day-to-day basis. Do you know a man who you'd define as 'great?' What are the qualities you see in them? What makes them someone worth admiring or respecting? The jackpot question is would you introduce them to your frens who are available?

So are they actually great guys out there. Hell yeah, when you can peel away the pre-conceived notion and standards on looks, then look inside, there are a couple of great guys. The sad thing is as dumb as guys are to jaw drop on babes, girls are guilty too, so whats left!! Average Joes who get lucky sometime, rare but sometimes and the girls who get them are damm lucky. These are the great guys.