Monday, June 19, 2006

An interesting email - Friendship

Darling Babysiew sent me this.
I extracted parts of the chain email for the reading pleasure of all. Tell me what you think


People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant .

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.You decide & Let me know! I will wait?.....................?

4 comments:

Angie Siew said...

Darling Babysiew thinks that she is here in ur life for a lifetime ok? Not for a reason... U r still going to be the wedding singer in my wedding... as long as u sing romance, love songs! hahaha... huggies!

naraknas said...

People come and go thats the nature of life and there may be a million reasons for that, some of which we may not even understand but that does not make him/her lesser of a friend...

Anonymous said...

what if i find a 'reason' in you to stay the 'seasons' and let the 'lifetime' fall in place day by day....we have survived so far.....'u dun jump, i dun jump' lol

darthvadai said...

angie
damm i was just thinking of singing "long 1...short 1"

naraknas...i agree with the nature of life....and well said

sparks... m jumping hahahah