Hot and Cold Friends are the kind of people who are all matey and pally one minute and completely ignoring you the next. For example, you might be chilling out with your pal at Bisik and the next day, when you suggest hanging out again she answers “no” and swans of with another friend. It goes on like that and you may end up falling out or doing exactly the same thing back. lol. Some dont see it but there are many that just keep you for the reasons said above.
The same can be said for seasonal friends who get burnt out for seeing you too much. In life and especially in relationships moderation is important, friends, partners, girl friends what you come too close or stay too far it starts coming apart. Some can survive it some cant but then again, that is part and parcel of relationships.
Its simple it takes 2 hands to make it work, the simplicity is if it dun work, turn the other cheek, if it still dun work and you are not happy, move on and move forward. Dont be caugth in a vicious quicksand, trust me it aint worth it.